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you make the right decisions

Who better than you to make difficult life decisions?

6mo ago I put my dad in hospice, even though my mom didn’t want to.โฃ
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Often, as caregivers, โฃ
we have to make decisions โฃ
we’d rather not make. โฃ
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Because we don’t want โฃ
๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โฃ
or let people down โฃ
or ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ต. โฃ
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But, what if we had โฃ
our own back โฃ
And ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โฃ
๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป โฃ
for that moment in time โฃ
with that amount of knowledge? โฃ
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If we don’t judge ourselves, โฃ
then our choices aren’t โฃ
quite as difficult. โฃ
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As for other people’s opinion. โฃ
We can’t control that. โฃ
What will be, will be. โฃ
๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ป’๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ โฃ
๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜†๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜‚๐˜€ โฃ
๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™™๐™ค๐™š๐™จ๐™ฃ’๐™ฉ. โฃ
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๐˜น๐˜ฐ๐˜น๐˜ฐ ๐˜“๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ช โฃ
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