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the horrible people in your family
I think it's a rare family that gets through life without family drama.
Because humans think thoughts - good and bad thoughts about other people.
That's ok.
What hurts is holding on to those thoughts.
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finding real sentimental treasures
WantĀ toĀ know the beauty of multi-generational caregiving?
It's finding the little sentimental treasures and remembering them and bringing them to mind during life's not so fun moments.
The more you practice, the...
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expanding grief
What does it feel like when a parent dies?
I'm sure that's as unique as each individual.
Here's my viewpoint after 5 days.
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less than 4 weeks left
How did this happen so fast? my mom asked
I suppose, the end is always too fast.
The time with your loved one is too short.
There's never enough time.
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starting over again
Did you know you can always start over again?
Yep. You can begin again.
You can have a do-over.
It's never too late.
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be early or else you're late
Do you like to be early, right on time, or late?
I'm probably the way I am because my mother is the way she is.
Does your punctuality run in the family?
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it's so sad
Sometimes things that make us So Sad aren't really useful things to be sad about.
Here's my take on the situation.
I hope you have a day like ukulele man.
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the shame game
Are you unknowingly speaking in ways that cause shame?
Here are a few ideas to know whether you are.
Because shame is never a fun place to be.
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everything is for me
You want to know how to have the best life ever?
This is part of the secret formula.
Try it. I bet it will make a huge difference.
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but, I don't want to
How do you get yourself to do things you don't want to?
Here's how my husband and I get all sorts of things done that we don't want to.
It's all about asking yourself the right questions.
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end stage dementia food fight
Got any caregiving disagreements?
I'm sure I'm not the only one.
Listen in to see if we resolve this food fight.
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denial is real
How much evidence do you need to get out of denial?
I'm not sure.
Maybe there's no limit.
That's what it seems like for my mother anyway.
I guess that's how some people cope.
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