How to Be Resilient

no matter what

when do I get a life with Kathi

When do I get a life with Kathi from ice cream with mom.

When do I get a life?

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planning the perfect death with Jess

Death is something people aren’t comfortable talking about. Lucky for you, Jess and I...

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frustrated by a narcissistic mother with Melissa

Frustrated by a narcissistic mother with Melissa from Wandering Missy.

 

 

We...

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how to be good enough

I had written the first half of this 6 months ago, the day before my father died. 

I never...

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do we have free will

 “I wouldn’t wish caregiving on my worst enemy,” said one caregiver. ...

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freakout at 30,000ft

I’ve got to admit, I’m not looking forward to going home.  

I’ve been...

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steamy texts

This afternoon my husband texted me some porn. 

 

 

Food porn, that is. 

He...

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tragedy in paradise

My cousin is missing.

Most likely burned up in the fire that ripped through Lahaina, Maui 5 days...

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in a perfect world

In a perfect world, my father wouldn’t have had such a long slow dementia decline, ending...

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I just want to die

One of the last things my mom said to me before I left was, 

I feel terrible. I just want to...

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how to have the best life ever

Today is my birthday.

Today I’m 60 years old.

 

 

And you’re in luck,...

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from the earth to the sea

Yesterday my mom and I picked up my dad’s ashes.

I didn’t know if I should bring her,...

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