How to Be Resilient

no matter what

the horrible people in your family

The last time I saw or spoke to my brother was 2 years ago.

My parents haven’t seen him for...

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finding real sentimental treasures

Today my son texted me and my mom,

“I found this V pin at an antique store, so I bought...

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expanding grief

My father died 5 days ago.

A couple people have asked me, Is it the way you thought it was going...

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less than 4 weeks left

Two days ago my mom was scheduling an appointment with her pain management doctor’s office....

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starting over again

My dad has a swallowing disorder.

 

 

Yesterday I was watching him eat lunch.

He...

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be early or else you're late

Over the weekend, I went to a family reunion with my mother.

Her side of the family, my...

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it's so sad

Tonight, one man was walking around with 2 hats on his head. One on top of the other.

I watched...

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the shame game

"I’m totally at my wits end.

My dad asked my family to move in with him to keep him...

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everything is for me

A few days ago my mom had a stomach ache a few hours before she was supposed to meet with her...

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but, I don't want to

I don’t want to go, said my husband a couple nights ago.

He was talking about staying...

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end stage dementia food fight

My dad is basically a 5’8” 98lb skeleton.

Over the last two years he’s been...

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denial is real

It really baffles me how my mother can be in such denial.

She denied for a decade that my dad had...

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