How to Be Resilient

no matter what

happy heavenly birthday

My dad would be 83 today
if dementia didn’t take him
in May.

He chose to be a dad when he...

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freakout at 30,000ft

I’ve got to admit, I’m not looking forward to going home.  

I’ve been...

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steamy texts

This afternoon my husband texted me some porn. 

 

 

Food porn, that is. 

He...

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amor fati loving fate

Do you love what happens?
Love what is?

π˜Όπ™’π™€π™§ π™›π™–π™©π™ž = 𝙖 π™‘π™€π™«π™š 𝙀𝙛 π™›π™–π™©π™š

Do you?

Today my family is
...

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how to be lucky

Luck is yours, if you look for it.

You’re lucky if you catch
- 𝘒 𝘣𝘦𝘒𝘢𝘡π˜ͺ𝘧𝘢𝘭 𝘴𝘢𝘯𝘳π˜ͺ𝘴𝘦
- a tender...

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how my cousin died

My cousin was found burned up in his car.

This is my view flying past Maui
a few days ago.

A small...

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tragedy in paradise

My cousin is missing.

Most likely burned up in the fire that ripped through Lahaina, Maui 5 days...

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thoughts we use to avoid hard things

Do you ever think…

- 𝘐 𝘩𝘒𝘷𝘦 𝘡𝘰 π˜₯𝘰 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘡𝘩π˜ͺ𝘯𝘨 𝘒𝘳𝘰𝘢𝘯π˜₯ 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦!

- 𝘏𝘦 π˜₯𝘰𝘦𝘴𝘯’𝘡 π˜₯𝘰 π˜ͺ𝘡 𝘡𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘒𝘺 𝘐...

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in a perfect world

In a perfect world, my father wouldn’t have had such a long slow dementia decline, ending...

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I just want to die

One of the last things my mom said to me before I left was, 

I feel terrible. I just want to...

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you can enjoy all of it

Each day is special.
Every day is a new beginning
different than the day before.

Enjoy all of it -
...

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a reason to not be resentful

Fishing at dawn.
That’s what my husband and daughter
planned for today.

Wish you could come!
my...

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