How to Be Resilient

Today is my birthday.

Today I’m 60 years old.

And you’re in luck,...

I feel like I’m halfway
to being an orphan.
That’s what my sister told me
after our dad...

Hey Caregiver,

What are you doing to take care of you?

I take sunrise walks to get my mind and body...

Yesterday my mom and I picked up my dad’s ashes.

I didn’t know if I should bring her,...

The last time I saw or spoke to my brother was 2 years ago.

My parents haven’t seen him for...

Today my son texted me and my mom,

“I found this V pin at an antique store, so I bought...

In memory of our loved ones
Watch over us
Until we meet again

xoxo Lani
Lantern Festival
Honolulu,...

My father died 5 days ago.

A couple people have asked me, Is it the way you thought it was going...

Two days ago my mom was scheduling an appointment with her pain management doctor’s office....

My dad has a swallowing disorder.

Yesterday I was watching him eat lunch.

He...

Over the weekend, I went to a family reunion with my mother.

Her side of the family, my...

Tonight, one man was walking around with 2 hats on his head. One on top of the other.

I watched...