How to Be Resilient

Are you blaming the wrong person for not sticking to your boundaries?

A number of...

Last year, my Auntie died.

She was a substitute mom to me.

And a substitute auntie, because she...

Multiple generations, grandparents, siblings, cousins, spending long weeks doing everything...

My mom likes to tell people, Lani used to be so smart before she had that high fever.

My mom...

Did you know grief can sneak up on you, even before your parents die?

We were at...

Do you have something stuck in your mind that someone did that you absolutely just can’t...

Please excuse me, I’m about to go on a big rant here.

I listened to a podcast the other day...

I have an annual tradition with my mother called The Yearly Password Fiasco. Here's what I...

Why is it that some people just like to keep secrets?

Today, I’m going to be telling you...

I'm no stranger to mistakes, but I think this is the biggest parenting mistake I’ve ever...

In the last post I told you that my dad has dementia and that his memory care unit doctor...

Hey!

I’m Lani, a mother, daughter, and life coach.  

This is my place to gripe...